The average guy spends 22 minutes per visit on online dating sites – and 12 hours per week.*

That’s a whole season of Game of Thrones – in one week!  But that won’t be you. 

These online dating tips help you spend less time but meet more of the right women.  If you're new to online dating, start here. 

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* "Marital Satisfaction and Breakups Differ Across On-Line and Off-Line Venues," a 2013 Study by U.S. researchers in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences

** "Online Dating: A Critical Analysis From the Perspective of Psychological Science," a 2012 research article published in Psychological Science in the Public Interest