The average guy spends 12 hours a week on online dating apps.  

But you're not an "average" guy! Spend less time and meet more of the right girls with these smart online dating tips.

How to Write a Great First Message

It's easier than you think! Here's how. Read more ›

Write Your Dating Profile Like You're Don Draper

Don Draper knows what women want to see. Read more ›

How to Talk to Women on Tinder: The Smart Guy's Guide

This messaging strategy is KEY for getting dates on Tinder. Read More ›


Hold Her Attention: 3 Message Examples & Tricks

Smart guys are vigilant about keeping the conversation going. Here's how. Read More ›

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