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What Are You Stuck On?

Here’s what I’ve helped guys with during our 1-hour work sessions:

  • Writing your dating profile

  • Coming up with great openers

  • Thinking of ways to continue the text conversation

  • Choosing your best photos

  • Asking her out

  • Planning what to talk about on first dates

  • Great date ideas

  • What to text after the first date to get a second date

These calls are hands-on, productive work sessions with tangible results: a new profile, better conversations, more matches, better first dates.

Come ready to solve problems, switch things up, and get shit done.


Client Testimonials

OK, your Bumble rewrite is f***ing insane. Totally worth it.
— Andrew, 33, an Attorney
It’s working! 5 emails later we are meeting for dinner tonight. You’re the best.
— Troy, 24, a Mechanical Engineer
I can’t thank you enough for what you did. I’m talking to 4 different women and I have a coffee date next week. Thanks so very much.
— Brad, 28, a Health Information Tech
I got a response from her! What you have taught me has been very valuable. Thank you for being so thorough and considerate.
— John, 38, a Chiropractor
The photos you recommended I add to my profile made a huge difference. I’d only had a single match before. After your feedback, I had 3 in 1 night!
— Joseph, 29, a Marketing Officer
I think the profile we set up gets across who I am in a great way. I definitely feel confident about using it!
— Andrew, 26, IT Professional
These suggestions are fantastic. Your advice is designed to create a great profile for finding a great match, instead of cut and paste answers and emails setup to play some kind of game.
— Tyler, 43, IT Professional
It was really fun talking on the phone and learning how women think. It was very enlightening and informative, since I don’t have a great deal of online dating experience! Your insight is so valuable.
— Andy, 46, a Financial Advisor


1 Month Coaching Program

I also coach action-oriented men who want to set themselves up for long-term success. They are ready challenge the status quo of their current dating experience, are willing to test new strategies, and want to develop new skills and mindsets to get the dating results they deserve — faster.

You’re ready to put new strategies & tactics to action to reach your long-term goals.

Available remotely or in-person


Date Coaching
In Person

First dates never become second dates and you don't know why.

Available in-person only



Prefer to DIY? Check Out My eBooks!



Stand Out: How to Write a Great Online Dating Profile

This 60-Page eBook Includes:

- 69 Real Profile Examples
- 80 Prompts & Questions
- 10 Worksheets that Write Your Entire Profile FOR You!
- 250+ Tips & Tricks to Stand Out

PLUS, Get a FREE 3-Point Profile Review from Em!  



Get the Green Light: Write First Messages that Get Girls to Reply

This 40-page eBook Includes:

- 15 Specific Prompts for What to Say
- 35 Message Examples You Can Send Today
- 50 Tips to Stand Out & Initiate Conversation

What to Write to Make Her Want to Meet You!



Get Both! MenAskEm eBook Bundle

22% Off the Total Price!

Stand Out: How to Write a Great Online Dating Profile

Get the Green Light: Write First Messages that Get Girls to Reply



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