In-Person Coaching with Em
You & Me. Let's Figure This Out.
Create a Killer Profile. Write Great Messages. Take Your Best Photos. Ace Your First Dates.
NYC, London, Philadelphia, Berlin, DC & By Request
What's your current challenge?
You don't match with the girls you want. Texting on Tinder never turns to meeting.
Your profile doesn't do you justice. No one replies to your messages on OkCupid.
You're nervous every time. First dates never turn into second dates and you don't know why.
Let's meet. We'll figure out the problem and implement the solution!
Make it happen:
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Pricing & Process
Learn more about Dating App Reviews, Full Profile Reviews, and Profile Creations here. For more about First Date Coaching, see below.
Dating IRL: In-Person Date Coaching with Em
For Good Guys Who Want to Ace First Dates
NYC, London, Philadelphia, Berlin, DC
& Cities Globally by Request
Real life & love happen away from the screen.
Gain the confidence you need to meet girls in person.
The online dating game begins on-screen but it’s won or lost off-screen. Meeting IRL (in real life) is where the magic happens, where the chemistry sparks, and where you first think, "Damn, I could really like this person."
Master the first date.
Meeting in person comes with its own set of unique challenges and decisions:
- What should you talk about?
- How much should you ask her about her life?
- How much should you reveal about yourself?
- Should you flirt or make physical contact (and how)?
- Where should you meet, and what time of day?
- What should you wear, or eat or drink (and how much)? ...And who should pay?
- How do you tell if she wants to go on a second date?
On top of that, what unfolds in the moment is often more powerful than anything we’ve planned for. Some of it can be great (her smile when she first sees you, or when the conversation flows so easily it’s like no time has passed at all).
But it’s often unintentional or accidental behavior that can cause a date to take a dark turn – and leave a girl feeling uncomfortable, underwhelmed, or hurt…and crush the chances of a second date.
Here's some of what I've experienced on first dates, all from otherwise smart, kind, well-meaning guys:
- Not knowing which questions to ask...so asking no questions
- Fidgeting awkwardly
- Not knowing how to flirt a tiny bit and accidentally negging me
- Nervously monologuing or talking over me
- Not knowing how to find common ground in conversation
- Confusing me with other girls they’re texting with
- Not knowing how to say hello or goodbye with simple physical contact
- Not knowing how to follow up confidently after the date
What if a girl could tell you exactly what it's like to be on a date with you – and what you could do to make it a great date?
Increase your confidence with in-person date practice, honest, actionable feedback, and strategic coaching.
Dating IRL is a personalized 6-step program that we design around YOU and your own personal dating goals and challenges.
Together, we address all of dating challenges and decisions listed above – the preparation you can control, as well as the unintentional behavior that you can learn to spot (and stop) in the moment, and what you can do instead to have more successful first dates.
Dating IRL is not about teaching you to be a player, an aggressive flirt, or someone you're not.
It's simply about bringing out your true and best self by getting clear on what makes you a catch, practicing in a date scenario, identifying and improving on what needs work, and helping you gain the confidence you need to show up comfortably as yourself on a first date. (Because that's when the really good shit happens.)
Ready to learn more? Email me!
Pricing starts at $399.