How to Write a Great First Message

It’s really easy to write a good first message!  It doesn’t take much time, either.  Here’s what to do…  Read More ›

How to Text Women on Tinder: The Smart Guy’s Guide

Despite its reputation as an app for hooking up, Tinder is now also used by women who want to date — and don’t want to waste time getting to the date part of online dating! (GREAT news for you!) This texting strategy is key for getting Tinder dates.  Read More ›

How to Message a Girl Who Has Nothing On Her Profile

Q:  How do you “cold call” and send a message with basically NOTHING to go on?

A:  With this easy 3-step strategy!  Read More ›

What to Text if She Won’t Meet in Person

Here’s how to get her to meet you if she’s always “busy”…and how to know when to move on. Read More ›

How to Make a Real Connection with Someone: Part 1

There are 2 things I recommend doing above anything else in online dating that will enable you to make a real connection with a girl.  Read More ›

The “Magic Word” She Really Wants to Hear: How to Make a Real Connection with Someone, Part 2

It’s not please, or beautiful, or even love.  It’s definitely not “heyyyyy…”  Read More ›

How to Ask a Girl for More Pictures

Has this ever happened to you?  Her profile is great and her photos SEEM great, but you just can’t tell what she actually looks like! Here’s how to politely ask her to send you more pictures…  Read More ›

3 Message Examples & Tricks to Hold Her Attention

Smart guys are vigilant about keeping online dating message conversations going.  Here are 3 tricks to use so she doesn’t forget about you.  Read More ›

How to Suggest Meeting & Get a Date

Here’s how to know if the timing is right, and two ways to ask her out..Read More ›

How to Succeed on Tinder: Avoid These Mistakes!

It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and accidentally miscommunicate something when you’re texting back and forth rapidly. Avoid these text mistakes!  Read More ›

Good Questions to Ask in a First Message or Text Conversation

One thing that would make your message better would be asking the type of question that other guys can’t.  Examples of good questions to ask in a first message or text are…  Read More ›

When to Stop Messaging a Woman: The Gentleman’s Guide

After all your effort spent just to get a reply, it can be hard to tell when you should stop messaging a girl. Here are the common situations guys get stuck in…  Read More ›

Can I Message a Woman Again Even if She Didn’t Reply to My First Message?

The short answer is yes! But it takes some finesse. Here’s how to know if it’s worth your time and, if so, how to do it.  Read More ›

2 Easy Steps to Writing Messages that Get Replies

How to make a girl think, “Thank fuck.  Finally a guy who knows how to talk to a girl!”   Read More ›

2 Mistakes that Scare Girls Off – Easy to Fix!

When I see writing like this, I can’t pay attention to what the guy’s saying…  Read More ›

When Online Dating Doesn’t Work for You, Do This

Does online dating feel like hitting your head against a brick wall? Here’s how to know it’s time to take a break and what to do to meet girls instead.  Read More ›