"How do you 'cold call'? That is to say, send a message with basically NOTHING to go on. Sometimes a girl’s OkCupid profile is so minimal – and apps like Tinder create this problem all the time." Read Em's answer ›
"How long do I have to message a girl before asking her to meet me in person? I don’t want to freak her out by asking too soon. But I don’t want to keep messaging forever. When’s the right time, and what’s the best way to suggest meeting?" Read Em's answer ›
"You said there are two things that make a good first message: noticing what I have in common with a girl, then starting a conversation about it. I do that, but I still don’t get many responses. What’s the deal?" Read Em's answer ›
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