How to Achieve Online Dating Mastery

Are girls complimenting your profile + replying to your messages?

They should be.

After receiving thousands of messages, reading hundreds of profiles, and working one-on-one to help countless clients meet more women, I know what makes a man stand out online.

I know how to write a profile that does you justice, shows your personality and makes her want to know more about you.  

I know what to write in a first message to get her attention, get her to respond, and make her want to meet you.

I’ve helped hundreds of clients create profiles they feel great about, and write first messages that get replies:

I can’t thank you enough for what you did. I’m talking to 4 different women and I have a coffee date next week. Thanks so very much.
— Brad, 28, a Health Information Tech
I’ve had a significant turnaround: a couple dates scheduled for this week already. All I can say is wow! This was above and beyond expectations and very, VERY helpful! Thank you! You’re a great help to guys like me that need a that extra edge! You’ve saved my dating future!
— Matt, 35, an IT Analyst
I got a response from [screenname]! What you have taught me has been very valuable. Thank you for being so thorough and considerate.
— John, 38, a Chiropractor

Are You Ready to Level Up?

The MenAskEm Pro Session

An In-Depth Profile Review + Consulting Call with Em

Do girls look at your profile but never reply to your messages? Your profile doesn’t do you justice. I know what women want and the profile mistakes men make. To stand out, you need a trained eye AND someone who really "gets you." I provide an objective perspective, an experienced eye, and feedback that’s knowledgeable, actionable, and honest.  Here's how the Pro Session works:

Step 1 – What Makes You Stand Out? 

You won’t have to figure it out.  I’ll tell you

I’ll get to know you with my comprehensive client survey.  I developed this survey over 4 years, and it's designed to reveal what’s unique about YOU – your life, interests, passions, values, and relationship hopes and goals. It reveals what makes you different from other guys, the unique things that make you tick, and the special ways you’re a great catch. 

You’ll also get a copy of my eBook, “Stand Out: How to Write a Great Online Dating Profile.” It includes critical advice you can easily implement to improve your profile right away, including:

- 250+ Tips & Tricks to Stand Out
- 69 Real Profile Examples
- 80 Prompts & Questions
- 10 Worksheets that Write Your Entire Profile FOR You!

Using the strategies in "Stand Out" as the foundation, and my comprehensive client survey to get to know you, we'll ensure we highlight your strengths and personality to your best advantage. 

Step 2 – Initial Profile Review

After reviewing the results of your client survey, I’ll visit your profile with two priorities in mind: 1) if you are doing yourself justice and 2) what impression your profile makes on women. I’ll also focus in on any mistakes, red flags, and weak areas in your profile that 1) don’t do you justice and 2) negatively affect how women see you.  

Step 3 – 1 Hour Consulting Call with Em

In our 1-hour call, we’ll review your profile together.  We’ll focus on what’s working, what’s going wrong, and create an action plan for how you can fix it quickly. 

You’ll also get to ask me all your questions about online dating to improve your strategy and results across the board: messaging online, meeting in person, dating in real life, the best apps and sites for you.

Step 4 – Profile Revision

Using the action plan from our call, you’ll know exactly what to change, revise, add, or re-write on your profile.

Step 5 – Photo Review

If you need to add more profile pictures, or make changes to your current roster, I’ll help with that, too! Great profile pictures are only part of the game.  It’s also important that your pictures look like you, show your lifestyle, social life, and interests. We’ll work together until we’ve got a great lineup that will appeal – not repel – the girls for you!

Step 6 – Profile Perfection

After your revisions, we’ll make sure your profile makes a great first impression.  You’ll feel confident you’re putting your best self out there – but also your real self.  Because that’s who’s going to get the girl!


Ready to Level Up?  

The MenAskEm Pro Session + Call with Em


Had a girl view my profile yesterday, and 5 emails later we are meeting for dinner tonight. You’re the best.
— Troy, 24, Mechanical Engineer
It was a real pleasure to actually feel like I was listening to someone who really gets both where I’m coming from, and who seems to have a very accurate and real understanding of people. It’s rare to see and I felt very at ease with your comments. Thanks so much.
— James, 35, a Software Developer
It was really fun talking on the phone and learning how women think. It was very enlightening and informative, since I don’t have a great deal of online dating experience! Your insight is so valuable. Thanks so much.
— Andy, 46, a Financial Advisor

The MenAskEm Master Session

An In-Depth Profile Review, Message Review + 2 Consulting Calls with Em

You know your profile is weak...Girls don’t reply to your messages. But you have no clue where to start. I’m glad you’re here!  It’s good to know guys like you exist – guys who make an effort and take time to do things right. 

You need a great profile and a messaging strategy that gets you the replies you deserve! After reviewing hundreds of clients’ messages and profiles, I know the most common mistakes men make and how to fix them – fast! 

Here's how the Master Session works:

EVERYTHING Included in the MenAskEm Pro Session!

Step 1 – What Makes You Stand Out? 

Step 2 – Initial Profile Review

Step 3 – 1 Hour Consulting Call with Em

Step 4 – Profile Revision

Step 5 – Photo Review

Step 6 – Profile Perfection

Step 7 – Message Strategy Overhaul

We begin the process to messaging mastery with an instant overhaul of your messaging strategy, guided by my eBook, “Get the Green Light: Write First Messages that Get Girls to Reply," including:

- 15 Specific Prompts for What to Say
- 35 Message Examples You Can Send Today
- 50 Tips to Stand Out & Initiate Conversation

You're able to implement this specific advice to improve your messaging game right away, while I'm conducting your formal message review.

Step 8 – Message Review

I’ll review 5 of your best messages and the women's profiles. I zero in on the problem areas in each message to find out what worked, what didn’t work, and why it caused issued for her, and what would have worked better.

Step 9 – 45 Minute Consulting Call with Em

We’ll have our second call, this time focused on constructive, specific, and actionable feedback for improving your messages.  We’ll look at your messages together and go over what went wrong and why, and what you can do next time, and why.

I’ll also give you personalized tips on how to improve your messaging game overall.  I make these suggestions based on what I know about you from your profile, your personality, and your natural writing style.

You’ll also get to ask me all your questions again – about the messaging strategies and online dating in general: your profile, meeting in person, dating in real life, the best apps and sites for you.  

Step 10 – Message Writing & Launch

Using the strategies we discussed in our consulting call and from “Get the Green Light,” you’ll draft 3 messages to girls you’re a great fit for. 

I'll check out each girl’s profile AND review your messages to help you improve and perfect them before sending.

BONUS!  Want a second chance with a girl you've messaged?  Let me know.  I’ll share the best strategy for messaging girls again, now that you’ve upped your messaging game and created a profile you feel great about.


The MenAskEm Master Session:

An In-Depth Profile Review, Message Review + 2 Calls with Em


With your profile and message advice, I went from getting a message response of 20% to nearly 90%! I basically got a date with every girl that responded. Now I’m dating a great girl and have closed my Match account. I just trusted your advice and did what you recommended and it absolutely worked! Thank you for the great service you provide.
— John, 38, a Chiropractor
I just started talking to someone, with my new profile, and we have so, so much in common. I’m really excited to see what happens. I really want to thank you. I’ve received a lot of positive response from my new profile. You definitely know what you are doing.
— Matt, 32, a Marketing Director
I value your precise advice by paying attention to all the details. Thank you for giving me constructive feedback. I can now proceed with my messaging strategy with confidence. Your advice also applies to communication beyond online dating, and I see that you genuinely care about our success.
— Todd, 50, Park Ranger
Thank you for this insanely awesome review! You are very good at what you do. I had done a good deal of research on online dating and saw several other ‘services’ that just seemed like huge scams geared toward guys who want to date as many women as possible. That’s not me, so when I found your site and started reading your articles, everything just made so much sense. Your advice was designed to create a great profile for finding a great match, instead of cut and paste answers and emails setup to play some kind of game. I also like the fact that you are a woman who is offering this advice based on real life experience. It’s obvious you put a lot of thought into this. Thank you.
— Tyler, 43, IT Professional

Ready to Achieve Online Dating Mastery?

MenAskEm Pro Session
MenAskEm Master Session

Not sure which session is right for you?  Email me at  We'll look at your current situation and goals together to find the best way to get the results you deserve.